My Adult Date Experience

I’m a high school teacher. So, as you can probably tell, I don’t have much of an exciting life. I teach Math and a lot of my students are, frankly, ungrateful and probably would want to be somewhere else. It’s not that I’m a boring teacher. I try to inject a lot of fun and spontaneity into my classes, but let’s face it, here in the United States, Math is the kiss of death as far as a high school kid’s social life is concerned. You don’t want people to know that you’re good at Math.

Let’s put it this way, being good at Math is like on the same scale as liking sex with fat chicks in high school. Guys who like to fuck fat chicks in high school know that’s a lot of fun. They know that they get a lot out of it and that it’s great experience. However, they don’t want everybody else to know because they will get labeled as chubby chasers and their chances of ever going out on a date again probably sinks like a rock.

The same goes with Math. I could tell in the eyes of some of my students that they’re all about Math. They really dig the principles behind it. They really like the kind of mental gymnastics required to do well at Math, but they put on a good show. One guy dresses all up in black and another chick looks like your typical high school slut. It really is sad.

So, you can tell I’m pretty frustrated with my life, you know. I really love what I do, but the thing is, you can only go so long without appreciation. You can only go so long without some sort of social validation. The fact that I make the kind of money I make doesn’t make matters any easier. As you can probably tell, high school teachers aren’t exactly up there when it comes to the income scale. So, as far as I’m concerned, all these stresses pretty combine to depress my love life.

I’ve not been much of an extrovert. I don’t really like going out to singles’ bars or dance clubs. In fact, I don’t even dance at all. I have two left feet and watching me dance is like watching some sort of suicide ritual at some far-off island in the South Pacific. It really is sad. This is why it’s quite a minor miracle for me to find out about online dating. The whole idea that you can join an adult match website and enjoy great sex with an adult looking for the same things you’re looking for is a breath of fresh air.

You see, I’m not much into relationships. Been there, done that. I’m divorced. I already have two kids. They’re all grown up. I’ve already done that. That doesn’t appeal to me.

What I’m looking for are adult women who are just looking for the same things I’m looking for. They’re just looking to have fun. They’re looking to express themselves and they are not looking for emotional strings. If I’m looking for emotional strings, that’s a completely different matter. That’s a completely different agenda and a different game plan.

I’m not at that stage of my life yet. Maybe I’ll get there. I’ll get over the fact that my ex-wife is taking half of my money while she’s sitting on her fat ass. Maybe I can get over the fact that she has taken my two kids away from me and they hate me while I’m still paying for them until they turn 18. Call me bitter, call me realistic, it doesn’t really matter what you call me as long as you call me. That’s the kind of mindset that I’m in and the good news is, I joined an adult match site that was able to deliver.

I met this woman, Charlene, who is pretty much in the same boat as I am. She’s a doctor and she married when she was young and her ex-husband is basically trying to suck all her money through alimony and while she has custody of the kids, she feels that she is being penalized because of the fact that she makes very, very good money. She makes over $250,000 a year, but doesn’t see half of that and the remaining money is basically burned up by mortgage and all sorts of other bullshit expenses. She’s very frustrated. She doesn’t know what to do, but when you look at her from the outside looking in, she looks like she’s got everything together, very good-looking woman, very professional. She has great demeanor, but feels quite hollow inside. In other words, she was my soulmate.

We definitely saw eye to eye. At first, it was all about sex, but after that it was just great to just talk with somebody that’s going through the same things you’re going through. The best part is there’s no emotional or romantic entanglements there. We’re not talking about heartstrings here. We’re just talking about being in the same space with somebody who can totally understand where you’re coming from.

Now, a lot of guys are emotionally immature and would distort or misread this as some sort of emotional bonding and that’s what get them into all sorts of trouble. You can emotionally connect with somebody without having them into all sorts of trouble. You can emotionally connect with somebody without having to marry that person or become that person’s boyfriend and I’m so glad that Charlene gets this because that’s exactly the kind of wavelength she is on. So, we meet up, we talk about books that we’ve read, we do things together like go camping. We even went to Thailand together. We’re going to Paris next month.

Things are going great and there’s no emotional bullshit. Sex is awesome. I really think that the sex is great because there is no emotional component or relationship bullshit hanging over what we have. It’s a great physical and personal bond and I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. And to think it all started with the adult date sites [smile face].

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